周周的点滴生活

去柬埔寨是一年前的七月。和携程上的三个网友，互不相识。

不知怎么的想起了那段时光和当时的点滴。沉淀以后再来回想。更多的是怀念以及把它化为文字的冲动。

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金边：首都，
金碧辉煌的皇宫，和皇宫外泥泞的道路，飞扬的尘土，脏乱的市容，混乱的交通。让人想得到的，只是一个未经开发的中国内陆小镇。

一些针对老外的酒吧，饭店，商店倒是特别西化，低调但奢华。
湄公河边。贫寒的当地人落坐与此，唯一的乐趣便是看来往的车辆和人流。

网上召集，找来没目的的三个女人一起去吴哥。当然做的功课有限。

我倒是更多的对当年红色高棉的事情更感兴趣。
金边的杀人场中成堆的尸骨和沉重的故事，是最具有鲜明色彩的柬埔寨的近代事件，称不上历史，是因为好多经历过此事的人仍然健在。那种灰暗，血腥，悲凉的感觉，在当时如此炎热的夏天，仍然清晰的铺面而来。
一直记得金边城内的那个学校，和四幢阴森的教学楼，以及一张张照片，每一张上面都是一个即将面对死亡，无助，绝望或是惊恐万分的年轻或年老的脸

在金边的日子短暂，但是却或多或少的了解到当地人的生活。

我的叙述不成文，没有系统的1234之类的条理性。因为我认为，最最真实的体验便是深入当地的生活，如果你可以给自己寻求到那么一个机会。

进入和离开柬埔寨，都是通过金边。所以记得我们在金边吃的最后一顿饭。路边摊，越南米粉。然后在机场做了许久。仅有的一班飞机，看着那一机的人，怀着我们来时候一样迫切的心情，带着其妙的兴奋的表情，往外走。而我们确是等待着归去的。

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暹粒（吴哥窟）：

现在的记忆都有点凌乱了，如同记忆中的碎片，信手拈来，胡乱记录下来。

当时坐的大巴，风尘仆仆的去暹粒。车子是淘汰下来的日本大客车。上面还有厕所。并且提供冰冻水和三明治。很是受宠的感觉。

车上随车的服务员会用柬埔寨语介绍经过的地方。 一路风尘仆仆，像样的道路也只不过想我们的村间小道。尤其想不通的是，所有的车子都开得超慢。像蚂蚁般爬行，似乎不为过。

四五个小时后到达暹粒。吴哥窟的所在地。

到底是法国殖民地。法式的餐厅，酒吧，资本主义情调的很，不过我们去的这些去处却是当地人都不会涉足的一些场所。看看菜单，满是3-6美金的菜价。相信不是收入在人均60美元的当地人可以承受的起的。

暹粒是个好的去处，不光是因为他有吴哥窟。还因为很和谐的西方文明和东方文化的相融。交流的方便重要，而且让双方方便的互相表达。这才是真正意义上的旅行。

友好的三轮车夫。年轻，勤奋。尽管也是极力的讨价还价，我们倒是赞同。只是最后给的小费，可能他不甚满意。但是这个有喜欢李小龙功夫，讲得一口好英文，时常笑着露出雪白牙齿的小伙子，却是旅行中活生生的一个亮处。

单写暹粒，三天写不完。
买了三天的票子。也只是算作最基础的走马观花行游客。
其实对于残破的遗物，官方的，民间的传说及介绍多不胜数。亲身可以感受，倒是感觉出历史厚重的层次感。
青苔，雨林，深色的石块堆积出的城池，残破却固执存在的庙宇，还有仍然威风凌然的巨型城门。这个是当时的记录。

忽然觉得，那时几个朝代的君王，也许只是想通过这些个物件。留住他那个时代的某些个辉煌。

然而，物是人非，年复一年被森林，池塘掩映了几百年的这个巨大建筑群的重现天日，总是让人赞叹又惋惜的。像掉落尘间，却又格格不入的某个巨大磁场。吸引了人，也带走了神秘。

日出，日落，阳光不那么浓烈的时候。斜照下来，夹着树影，恍惚的一抹亮色，恍如隔世。

彼此缠绕的树，墙，砖，土。如同彼此离不开对方，却又看似彼此挣扎着挣脱开对方的束缚。

每天中午都是要回酒店去午休的。太大的太阳让人生倦。 午饭，选个空旷的，有高高的吊扇垂下来的地方，吃点简单的食物。晚上，到各种热门带着西式风格的酒吧，饭店。服务员总是一如既往的繁忙，但是上菜的缓慢而混乱。好在东西还好吃。于是，跟着旁桌的老外，就着手里的啤酒，很容易的high起来。

三个晚上，四个有点小疯狂的女人，美妙的街景，有创意的画廊和街头一爿小小的衣帽店。生动的，让我的回忆就这么的呼之欲出。

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西哈努克

三天有点晕头转向的拜访庙宇，搞得有点审美疲劳。之后去的西哈努克，完全不同的风格。海水，沙滩，紧靠着海边的酒吧，小食店。
一把把的躺椅。按摩，做指甲，喝冰沙，啤酒，海鲜，无限的惬意便在于此。作为文化旅游之后的一站，倒是恰到好处的。

海风，让人清醒。靠夜晚背坐在海边，就着昏暗的灯光听海水声，倒是我从来没有体会过的。

海边酒吧（也卖各种吃食的店）墙壁上，很容易发现小小的壁虎。生动的东西，很容易勾起女人的小小细腻内心的那根弦。壁虎是柬埔寨很常见的一种动物。讨人喜欢的小精灵。

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后记，

遗迹和现代倒没有在柬埔寨显得格格不入。互相平行的发展，当地人和旅游者各得其所。

柬埔寨的富人绝大部分都是华人，靠开厂，投资。所以他们看中国人的眼光都是显得友好而有点崇敬的。

柬埔寨的好，还在于，很容易发现你参与当地人的本色生活，在西方格调的临街酒吧内，品尝法式风情的餐点。即便是千年岁月的吴哥遗迹，也是有着现代的陈述方式。并且西哈努克的海港，也让旅程的最后一段完全放松下来。

就是这么个地方。和yoyo他们三个，一起度过了九天。结束了行程，又彼此各奔东西。

第一财经周刊上面的一幅漫画.觉得搞笑又讽刺的可以

扫描下来给大家看看.自己也能算算是个乌龟还是棵白菜.或是个龙虾鲍鱼啊?

公式:工资/体重=?元/斤.自己参照吧.哈哈哈

不怕的话,留言跟大家说一下.或者你在公司是个乌龟.辞职了就成了龙虾.可喜可贺!或者是成为白菜.那也是正常的.

关注一个不普通的女人,大度的,用于放弃的很好的一例.

Text of Hillary Rodham Clinton's speech Saturday at the National Building Museum, where she suspended her presidential campaign

Thank you very, very much. Well, this isn't exactly the party I'd planned, but I sure like the company.

And I want to start today by saying how grateful I am to all of you, to everyone who poured your hearts and your hopes into this campaign, who drove for miles and lined the streets waving homemade signs, who scrimped and saved to raise money, who knocked on doors and made calls, who talked, sometimes argued with your friends and neighbors ... who e-mailed and contributed online, who invested so much in our common enterprise, to the moms and dads who came to our events, who lifted their little girls and little boys on their shoulders and whispered in their ears, ``See, you can be anything you want to be.''

To the young people ... like 13-year-old Anne Riddell (ph) from Mayfield, Ohio, who had been saving for two years to go to Disney World and decided to use her savings instead to travel to Pennsylvania with her mom and volunteer there, as well.

To the veterans, to the childhood friends, to New Yorkers and Arkansans ... who traveled across the country, telling anyone who would listen why you supported me. And to all of those women in their 80s and their 90s ... born before women could vote, who cast their votes for our campaign. I've told you before about Florence Steen of South Dakota who was 88 years old and insisted that her daughter bring an absentee ballot to her hospice bedside. Her daughter and a friend put an American flag behind her bed and helped her fill out the ballot.

She passed away soon after and, under state law, her ballot didn't count, but her daughter later told a reporter, ``My dad's an ornery, old cowboy, and he didn't like it when he heard mom's vote wouldn't be counted. I don't think he had voted in 20 years, but he voted in place of my mom.''

So to all those who voted for me and to whom I pledged my utmost, my commitment to you and to the progress we seek is unyielding.

You have inspired and touched me with the stories of the joys and sorrows that make up the fabric of our lives. And you have humbled me with your commitment to our country.

Eighteen million of you, from all walks of life ... women and men, young and old, Latino and Asian, African-American and Caucasian ... rich, poor, and middle-class, gay and straight, you have stood with me.

And I will continue to stand strong with you every time, every place, in every way that I can. The dreams we share are worth fighting for.

Remember, we fought for the single mom with the young daughter, juggling work and school, who told me, ``I'm doing it all to better myself for her.''

We fought for the woman who grabbed my hand and asked me, ``What are you going to do to make sure I have health care?'' and began to cry, because even though she works three jobs, she can't afford insurance.

We fought for the young man in the Marine Corps T-shirt who waited months for medical care and said, ``Take care of my buddies over there, and then will you please take care of me?''

We fought for all those who've lost jobs and health care, who can't afford gas or groceries or college, who have felt invisible to their president these last seven years.

I entered this race because I have an old-fashioned conviction that public service is about helping people solve their problems and live their dreams. I've had every opportunity and blessing in my own life, and I want the same for all Americans.

And until that day comes, you'll always find me on the front lines of democracy, fighting for the future.

The way to continue our fight now, to accomplish the goals for which we stand is to take our energy, our passion, our strength, and do all we can to help elect Barack Obama, the next president of the United States.

Today, as I suspend my campaign, I congratulate him on the victory he has won and the extraordinary race he has run. I endorse him and throw my full support behind him.

And I ask all of you to join me in working as hard for Barack Obama as you have for me.

I have served in the Senate with him for four years. I have been in this campaign with him for 16 months. I have stood on the stage and gone toe-to-toe with him in 22 debates. I've had a front-row seat to his candidacy, and I have seen his strength and determination, his grace and his grit.

In his own life, Barack Obama has lived the American dream, as a community organizer, in the state senate, as a United States senator. He has dedicated himself to ensuring the dream is realized. And in this campaign, he has inspired so many to become involved in the democratic process and invested in our common future.

Now, when I started this race, I intended to win back the White House and make sure we have a president who puts our country back on the path to peace, prosperity and progress. And that's exactly what we're going to do, by ensuring that Barack Obama walks through the doors of the Oval Office on January 20, 2009.

Now, I understand - I understand that we all know this has been a tough fight, but the Democratic Party is a family. And now it's time to restore the ties that bind us together and to come together around the ideals we share, the values we cherish, and the country we love.

We may have started on separate journeys, but today our paths have merged. And we're all heading toward the same destination, united and more ready than ever to win in November and to turn our country around, because so much is at stake.

We all want an economy that sustains the American dream, the opportunity to work hard and have that work rewarded, to save for college, a home and retirement, to afford that gas and those groceries, and still have a little left over at the end of the month, an economy that lifts all of our people and ensures that our prosperity is broadly distributed and shared.

We all want a health care system that is universal, high-quality and affordable ... so that parents don't have to choose between care for themselves or their children or be stuck in dead-end jobs simply to keep their insurance.

This isn't just an issue for me. It is a passion and a cause, and it is a fight I will continue until every single American is insured, no exceptions and no excuses.

We all want an America defined by deep and meaningful equality, from civil rights to labor rights, from women's rights to gay rights ... from ending discrimination to promoting unionization, to providing help for the most important job there is: caring for our families.

And we all want to restore America's standing in the world, to end the war in Iraq, and once again lead by the power of our values ... and to join with our allies to confront our shared challenges, from poverty and genocide to terrorism and global warming.

You know, I've been involved in politics and public life in one way or another for four decades. And during those ... During those 40 years, our country has voted 10 times for president. Democrats won only three of those times, and the man who won two of those elections is with us today.

We made tremendous progress during the '90s under a Democratic president, with a flourishing economy and our leadership for peace and security respected around the world.

Just think how much more progress we could have made over the past 40 years if we'd had a Democratic president. Think about the lost opportunities of these past seven years on the environment and the economy, on health care and civil rights, on education, foreign policy and the Supreme Court.

Imagine how far ... we could have come, how much we could have achieved if we had just had a Democrat in the White House.

We cannot let this moment slip away. We have come too far and accomplished too much.

Now, the journey ahead will not be easy. Some will say we can't do it, that it's too hard, we're just not up to the task. But for as long as America has existed, it has been the American way to reject can't-do claims and to choose instead to stretch the boundaries of the possible through hard work, determination, and a pioneering spirit.

It is this belief, this optimism that Senator Obama and I share and that has inspired so many millions of our supporters to make their voices heard. So today I am standing with Senator Obama to say: Yes, we can!

And that together we will work - we'll have to work hard to achieve universal health care. But on the day we live in an America where no child, no man and no woman is without health insurance, we will live in a stronger America. That's why we need to help elect Barack Obama our president.

We'll have to work hard to get back to fiscal responsibility and a strong middle class. But on the day we live in an America whose middle class is thriving and growing again, where all Americans, no matter where they live or where their ancestors came from, can earn a decent living, we will live in a stronger America. And that is why we must help elect Barack Obama our president.

We'll have to work hard to foster the innovation that will make us energy independent and lift the threat of global warming from our children's future. But on the day we live in an America fueled by renewable energy, we will live in a stronger America. And that is why we have to help elect Barack Obama our president.

We'll have to work hard to bring our troops home from Iraq and get them the support they've earned by their service. But on the day we live in an America that's as loyal to our troops as they have been to us, we will live in a stronger America. And that is why we must help elect Barack Obama our president.

This election is a turning-point election. And it is critical that we all understand what our choice really is. Will we go forward together, or will we stall and slip backward?

Now, think how much progress we've already made. When we first started, people everywhere asked the same questions. Could a woman really serve as commander in chief? Well, I think we answered that one.

Could an African-American really be our president? And Senator Obama has answered that one.

Together, Senator Obama and I achieved milestones essential to our progress as a nation, part of our perpetual duty to form a more perfect union.

Now, on a personal note, when I was asked what it means to be a woman running for president, I always gave the same answer, that I was proud to be running as a woman, but I was running because I thought I'd be the best president. But...

But I am a woman and, like millions of women, I know there are still barriers and biases out there, often unconscious, and I want to build an America that respects and embraces the potential of every last one of us.

I ran as a daughter who benefited from opportunities my mother never dreamed of. I ran as a mother who worries about my daughter's future and a mother who wants to leave all children brighter tomorrows.

To build that future I see, we must make sure that women and men alike understand the struggles of their grandmothers and their mothers, and that women enjoy equal opportunities, equal pay, and equal respect.

Let us ... Let us resolve and work toward achieving very simple propositions: There are no acceptable limits, and there are no acceptable prejudices in the 21st century in our country.

You can be so proud that, from now on, it will be unremarkable for a woman to win primary state victories ... unremarkable to have a woman in a close race to be our nominee, unremarkable to think that a woman can be the president of the United States. And that is truly remarkable, my friends.

To those who are disappointed that we couldn't go all of the way, especially the young people who put so much into this campaign, it would break my heart if, in falling short of my goal, I in any way discouraged any of you from pursuing yours.

Always aim high, work hard and care deeply about what you believe in. And, when you stumble, keep faith. And, when you're knocked down, get right back up and never listen to anyone who says you can't or shouldn't go on.

As we gather here today in this historic, magnificent building, the 50th woman to leave this Earth is orbiting overhead. If we can blast 50 women into space, we will someday launch a woman into the White House.

Although we weren't able to shatter that highest, hardest glass ceiling this time, thanks to you, it's got about 18 million cracks in it ... and the light is shining through like never before, filling us all with the hope and the sure knowledge that the path will be a little easier next time.

That has always been the history of progress in America. Think of the suffragists who gathered at Seneca Falls in 1848 and those who kept fighting until women could cast their votes.

Think of the abolitionists who struggled and died to see the end of slavery. Think of the civil rights heroes and foot soldiers who marched, protested and risked their lives to bring about the end of segregation and Jim Crow.

Because of them, I grew up taking for granted that women could vote and, because of them, my daughter grew up taking for granted that children of all colors could go to school together.

Because of them, Barack Obama and I could wage a hard-fought campaign for the Democratic nomination. Because of them and because of you, children today will grow up taking for granted that an African-American or a woman can, yes, become the president of the United States. And so ... when that day arrives, and a woman takes the oath of office as our president, we will all stand taller, proud of the values of our nation, proud that every little girl can dream big and that her dreams can come true in America.

And all of you will know that, because of your passion and hard work, you helped pave the way for that day.

So I want to say to my supporters: When you hear people saying or think to yourself, If only, or, What if, I say, please, don't go there. Every moment wasted looking back keeps us from moving forward.

Life is too short, time is too precious, and the stakes are too high to dwell on what might have been. We have to work together for what still can be. And that is why I will work my heart out to make sure that Senator Obama is our next president.

And I hope and pray that all of you will join me in that effort.

To my supporters and colleagues in Congress, to the governors and mayors, elected officials who stood with me in good times and bad, thank you for your strength and leadership.

To my friends in our labor unions who stood strong every step of the way, I thank you and pledge my support to you.

To my friends from every stage of my life, your love and ongoing commitment sustained me every single day.

To my family, especially Bill and Chelsea and my mother, you mean the world to me, and I thank you for all you have done.

And to my extraordinary staff, volunteers and supporters ... thank you for working those long, hard hours. Thank you for dropping everything, leaving work or school, traveling to places that you've never been, sometimes for months on end. And thanks to your families, as well, because your sacrifice was theirs, too. All of you were there for me every step of the way.

Now, being human, we are imperfect. That's why we need each other, to catch each other when we falter, to encourage each other when we lose heart. Some may lead, some may follow, but none of us can go it alone.

The changes we're working for are changes that we can only accomplish together. Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness are rights that belong to us as individuals. But our lives, our freedom, our happiness are best enjoyed, best protected, and best advanced when we do work together.

That is what we will do now, as we join forces with Senator Obama and his campaign. We will make history together, as we write the next chapter in America's story. We will stand united for the values we hold dear, for the vision of progress we share, and for the country we love.

There is nothing more American than that.

And looking out at you today, I have never felt so blessed. The challenges that I have faced in this campaign ... are nothing compared to those that millions of Americans face every day in their own lives.

So today I'm going to count my blessings and keep on going. I'm going to keep doing what I was doing long before the cameras ever showed up and what I'll be doing long after they're gone: working to give every American the same opportunities I had and working to ensure that every child has the chance to grow up and achieve his or her God- given potential.

I will do it with a heart filled with gratitude, with a deep and dividing love for our country, and with nothing but optimism and confidence for the days ahead.

This is now our time to do all that we can to make sure that, in this election, we add another Democratic president to that very small list of the last 40 years and that we take back our country and once again move with progress and commitment to the future.

Thank you all. And God bless you, and God bless America.

结果让人有点伤心的一目了然.

我不想我缺少朋友.也有那么多人关心我,愿意听我唠唠叨叨婆婆妈妈的事情. 只是,大家毕竟都成家立业,不可能随叫随到的贴身陪伴.

在这个拥挤的城市,在每天挤在地铁上,人跟人都没有距离感可言的时候.我的感觉却真是完全相反的.

你有没有觉得,你跟你的朋友,尽管都在上海,不过好多年都不见了.又有一些朋友,总是说要一起碰个头吃个饭,每次一拖都可以拖个一年半载.

实际距离近了,心却是离得无比遥远的.

上海,在这方面,让我对她日渐失望.大家太埋头于自己的事情.看似每天忙于应酬,同事间的吃吃喝喝,客户间的觥筹交错.然而为何内心升起的却是一种无尽的孤独感呢?

这个话题太过于灰暗了.我想,五一的假期还是大家所期盼的.好好玩一下,放松一下.精神上的快乐远比赚多点钱要来的实际的的多!